It makes you forget the pain..

What is the easiest way to overcome- a break-up, a loss in the family, a betrayal, a failure or a mere stroke of bad luck? How to get back to normal when you are hurt badly by somebody's actions, or have been put in an uncontrollable diverse situation? Is it Hate that makes us come out of the tragic situations easier? If this is the case then, God must be most hated person in this Universe!

How are men are made militants? Are they born to hate so much? Militants must have earlier been the people who were nice, normal good-looking men having been shown the path of hatred. They find an easier meaning to life through hate as they can relate clearly to some tragic incidents in their lifetime. During that turmoil instead of positively solving it or a positive guidance, they took to blaming the person who brought them to this situation. They took to hate. Hating a person whom you feel has hurt you quickly dissolves the hurt and diverts the mind strongly towards other actions of hate.

Ever seen girls after a break up (reminds me of several movies). She is so hurt that she cannot digest the split. Its difficult to even treat her 'ex' with high respect because of pain and hurt. The best way that customarily happens is to take to hate. Hate is the accelerator in healing hearts. And so be it..?

Is there a solution other than HATE to healing HURT? We need to find it before more people take to hate to heal their hurt.